In this very important discussion, Bhai Harman Singh delves into the importance of the Sikh Anand Karaj in light of many Sikh destination weddings being done despite the Akal Takht's ban on destination weddings. The Anand Karaj is more than just a ceremony—it's a sacred union that requires Satkaar (respect) and Maryada (etiquette) within the Guru's house, the Gurdwara. Explore how modern trends are straying from core Sikh values and why preserving the sanctity of the Anand Karaj is crucial for maintaining the spiritual essence of marriage in Sikhi. Topics: 00:00 - Coming up 02:09 - What's been happening in Surrey BC 03:17 - Anand Karaj re-arranged from winery to a Gurdwara 05:15 - Example of King of England 05:52 - Example of Sant Attar Singh Ji showing respect to Guru Granth Sahib Ji 07:58 - How the Sikh Gurus showed their royalty 08:36 - The Guru Khalsa Panth 09:19 - What is a Gurdwara? Why is it seen as beadbi (sacrilege) to a destination wedding? 11:23 - What the Sikh wedding actually is - Laavan & Shabad of Guru Nanak Dev Ji explained 22:18 - Current 'Sikh' wedding customs in Punjab 23:48 - Current western customs for 'Sikh' weddings 25:06 - What's the difference between the Anand Karaj and a custom? 28:04 - What virtues do you want to bring into your Anand Karaj? 29:30 - The Guru Khalsa Panth's importance in the Guru's house 32:49 - What virtues do you want to bring into your Anand Karaj? cont. 33:42 - It's not the location that's the problem 35:00 - Ettiquettes in wordly courts 37:30 - Upholding the sacred traditions of the Guru like we encourage native Americans to 39:16 - Q: Why are you boxing Guru Granth Sahib Ji into a room? 40:50 - Ask these questions in the planning phase of your Anand Karaj 42:14 - Tips to take the best out of your Anand Karaj 44:17 - Going to the Guru for blessings 47:18 - Other conversations that need to be had #SikhWedding #DestinationWedding #Wedding